I found a vanilla survival SMP that runs on 1.21.11 and it works for both Bedrock and Java players
People on here do different stuff like building or doing PVP and there are also players who try to protect the builders so they can keep working
If you like plain survival with a mix of chill building and fights this server seems like it fits
Vanilla Survival SMP With Builders And PVP
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Banana Sandwich SMP 18+ Voice Chat
Banana Sandwich SMP is a Java survival multiplayer server on 1.21.11 and it is aimed at 18+ players who want a chill and mature place to play.
Season 3 has been running for about 2 months so the early grind is already done. The world feels stable with builds and infrastructure already set up plus a safe Mushroom Island hub and an active shopping area.
Proximity voice chat is required so people actually talk in game when they are near each other. The economy is diamond based and the shops are run by players.
It also has extra quality of life stuff like invisible item frames custom armor stands and the ability to sit and ride. There is a Bluemap so you can see the world as it grows. It is also zero pay to win so it stays fair.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPAdventure Time Hub With ATM10
I found a setup with two main servers and a themed hub world. There is a modded All The Mods 10 server that is meant to be a forever server and it was just set up. It has voice chat and keep inventory is on for newer players but it can be changed if most people want pvp.
There is also a clean vanilla survival server. It has voice chat and it supports Java and Bedrock crossplay. They are adding plugins and they are open to suggestions.
On top of that there is a vanilla Adventure Time themed hub with an Adventure Time spawn you can explore. It also has voice chat and Java and Bedrock crossplay. It works as a fallback for the vanilla server.
The owner says it is 24 7 uptime with smooth performance and active support. For the vanilla servers there is ViaVersion so you can join on any Minecraft version.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPRevival Bedrock SMP With Hidden Lore
Revival SMP is a Bedrock SMP where the world feels like it already has a story going on. There are secrets hidden around the map and the lore is meant to grow as players explore and cause big events.
You can build your own country or faction or just stay solo and survive your own way. People can make alliances or start rivalries and even wars but only if both sides are involved and it is intentional.
Content creators are welcome and the server wants storylines and events that people can follow. The world also has custom expansions planned for the Nether and the End with new dangers and new things to discover.
The rules are simple. No griefing unless it is part of a war or agreed conflict. Respect the story the players and the world.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPHermit Style SMP With Proximity Chat
I found a community centered survival server that is made by the players for the players. It is going for a Hermitcraft style SMP feel with a diamond based economy and a shopping area.
People also work on public builds and big projects and a lot of them use proximity chat while they play. The server tries to keep the vanilla experience but it can still grow with ideas from community requests and polls.
You can use homes and there are some extra cosmetic and quality of life and fun plugins. It is Minecraft 1.21.11 and Java only and it is whitelisted and 18+ only.
They say you will usually see around 5 to 20 people online during the day and they have a bunch of regular players. If you like meeting new people there are groups looking for more members.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPVanilla Feel SMP With Origins Lifesteal
I found a lightly modded SMP that tries to feel like normal Minecraft but with some extra stuff that actually matters.
It has Lifesteal so fights can change your hearts and it also uses the Origins mod so you can pick a race with its own abilities. There is also custom content like a Halberd weapon so combat has more choices without getting too complicated.
People here like PvP and meeting other players but it still sounds friendly for builders and chill players too.
There is a big spawn safety rule. No PvP within 128 blocks of spawn and no griefing at spawn. You also cannot combat log or run into spawn to dodge a fight. Shops are protected from griefing anywhere. The world border grows as more people join and every Saturday it opens up to full size for gathering resources.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP