I found this survival server called Smithtainment Minecraft and it feels like a real home online. They have been running games for over ten years so it feels pretty stable and well made. The server is on hard mode and it still feels kind of vanilla but with a bunch of extra quality of life stuff.
There are jobs you can take and you can level up skills and fight stronger mobs. There is a resource world so the main world does not get wrecked. Mobs and spawners can stack and there are both server shops and player shops so you can trade a lot. You can also set up player warps and use commands like rtp home and sethome which makes exploring way easier.
If you die you meet this fairy who lets you buy back your items which is actually pretty cool because hard mode can be rough. There are playtime ranks that give you more perks the longer you stay so it rewards people who stick around. The spawn area is custom built and looks really nice and there is a PvP arena under it for people who want to fight.
There are custom Ender Dragon fights so you can team up with other players and take her down together. The community seems really welcoming and they help new players when they join. The server runs on Minecraft Java version 1.21.10 so it is updated and ready for new adventures.
Smithtainment Gaming Vanilla-ish Survival SMP

BlackBannerSMP No Wipe Anarchy 1.21+

I found Black Banner and it is a strict 1.21+ anarchy server that is built to last.
There are no wipes and no seasons and no soft resets. The world is meant to keep going for as long as Minecraft exists so everything that happens stays.
There are no gameplay rules and no protections and staff will not step into player fights. Griefing raiding theft traps and KOS are part of how it works and it is also not pay to win.
The only real rules are no IRL doxxing and do not try to lag or crash the server. It is made for uptime not for fairness.
It supports Java and Bedrock Edition and it runs on stability focused stuff with a conservative update policy.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPAVANTCRAFT COMPETITIVE SLIMEFUN GENS EVENTS

AvantCraft Network es un servidor que se siente completo y bien activo. La idea es jugar en serio y competir mientras mejoras tu progreso y tu economía.
Tiene SlimeFun para la parte de tecnología y automatización avanzada. También tiene Gens donde generas mejoras y vas dominando la economía con el tiempo.
Hay eventos multijugador competitivos con recompensas exclusivas. El servidor dice que está optimizado y sin lag. La economía está balanceada y hay rankings y recompensas para los que se lo toman en serio.
El staff se ve activo y el ambiente es de superarte y construir tu propio imperio.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPClassic 2014 Prison Grind Is Back

The Pen MC is a classic prison server that feels like the old 2014 style where you actually have to grind. There is no instant selling and you are not meant to get overpowered right away. You mine and you smelt ores yourself then you take the risk of going through pvp zones to sell.
Progression is a full rank ladder from A to H and then you can reach Parole. After you max out ranks you can prestige and you can pick how you want to keep progressing instead of being forced into one path.
Mining is the main old school vibe but there are other ways to earn too. There is custom fishing that can keep up with the grind. There is a mob arena with waves and boss fights where groups can earn money and shards through combat.
There is also a cookie farming bakery system where you farm wheat and cocoa then bake cookies with custom mechanics. You can do long term cookie quests compete on leaderboards and turn baked cookies into higher tier rewards.
The server also has guards that enforce contraband rules plus illegal crops that are high risk and high reward. You can rent cells and plots use an auction house place bounties do parkour challenges and run player shops. They say pay to win is not the point since premium stuff can also be earned by playing.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPSableCraft Long-Term Vanilla SMP Launch

SableCraft is a small vanilla SMP that is meant to last for a long time. It is not trying to be a huge public server that wipes the world all the time.
The whole point is a chill community with respectful players. Builders casual players and creators can all fit in here.
It is also trying to stay clean with no pay to win stuff no anarchy and no drama. The direction is community driven from day 1 and they are opening up for season 1 player applications plus optional staff applications.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPVinterra Hermit Style Long Term SMP

Vinterra is a Hermit style survival server where people want to play for the long term and build huge bases.
The community is active with around 20 to 30 players and there is usually someone on. They also do events a lot and sometimes even game nights together.
Right now they are looking for about 10 new players. They do simple interviews on Saturday all day so they can meet you before you join.
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