Lavender SMP is a Java server on version 1.21.11 and it is set to hard mode. It is whitelisted and it is 18+ and LGBTQ+ friendly.
The community is close knit and they like building and chatting. If people are in voice you can hop in and talk too since it uses Simple Voice Chat.
It also has some quality of life stuff like AFK Display and anti enderman grief. There are fun collection extras too like more mob heads player head drops mini blocks and double shulker shells. DiscordSRV is on so chat can connect with Discord.
Lavender SMP Hardmode Voice Whitelist
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPTurnabout SMP Semi Vanilla Season 2
Turnabout is a whitelisted 18+ Java survival server that keeps the community first. It is a semi vanilla style place where you can play Minecraft and actually get to know people while you build and explore.
The server is about two months into Season 2 so there is a newer world to jump into with other players. People are from all over the world so you can usually find someone online.
It is an LGBTQ+ friendly server with a zero tolerance rule for hate. The goal is to keep it comfortable so players can be themselves.
They also run events to help everyone connect like hide and seek building competitions and some general RP. For quality of life they use one player sleep mob and player heads and voice chat while keeping the game feeling close to vanilla.
The server stays up 24/7 so you can hop on when you want.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP