I found a simple white listed vanilla server that runs on the latest Bedrock version. There are no mods and no fancy spawn so it feels like normal Minecraft.
The vibe is friendly and it is meant for people who just want to play together and chill. To get in you do a quick application through their Discord.
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GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPLuminary Falls Adult Vanilla Style SMP
Luminary Falls is a cozy long term SMP made for adults who want a welcoming place that lasts. It stays close to classic survival but it also uses quality of life plugins and datapacks so things feel smoother without losing the vanilla vibe.
It is whitelist only and 18 plus. The server is LGBTQ plus friendly and has a staff team with lots of server management experience. Players are from all over the world so there are people online at all hours.
It runs on Java and it also supports Bedrock crossplay. Non advantage client mods are allowed like Litematica Xaeros Sodium and Dynamic Lights.
There are resource worlds so the main world does not need to reset and your builds can stick around for years. The community has about 50 unique players each week and people like building farming redstone exploring and joining events.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP