I found GamerHub Towny and it feels like a chill Towny SMP that started out as a streaming server and now it is trying to grow bigger.
Griefing and stealing are not allowed and the world never resets so your builds can stay for the long run. The community seems welcoming and ready to help new players and a lot of players are in the Oceania region.
The server leans mostly player economy with ranks you can get using in game money. It also has Dynmap player warps and player shops plus a sell only server shop. You can do jobs and use MCMMO and there is a player built market too.
They say they get around 25 daily active players and it gets most active when the owner streams on twitch with 8 or more online sometimes. The listed version is 1.21.10 or similar.
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I found a really new Towny survival server that started as a streaming server and now it is trying to grow into a bigger community.
The vibe is pretty chill and griefing and stealing are not allowed. The world never resets so you can keep building long term.
It has ingame ranks that use ingame money. There is a dynmap so you can see the world. You can use player warps and set up player shops. There is also a sell only server shop plus Jobs and MCMMO.
Most players are in the Oceania region. It usually has around 30 daily active players and it gets extra active during Twitch streams with 10 or more online. There is an upcoming town rating event that happens on stream.
It supports Java version 1.21.10 or similar and it also has a Bedrock port.
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Shinyvale is a smaller and newer SMP that feels like it is built around making money and trading. It has commands like sell and shop plus player shops and player warps so you can set up your own spots and find other players fast.
The world is huge with a 60 million world border so there is tons of space to explore and build. It also lets both Bedrock and Java players play together so more friends can join in.
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GlowySMP is a brand new whitelisted semi vanilla SMP that feels cozy and relaxed. It is meant to be friendly and grief free so you can just play at your own pace.
Java and Bedrock players can both join together. The server has an economy plus player warps and player shops so you can trade and travel.
It also has land claims custom enchants jobs pyro fishing a resource world a pvp toggle and mobcatchers. There are community events too. Griefing is not allowed and the server is actively moderated to keep things positive.
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LazyCraft is a survival SMP that tries to stay clean and fair. I noticed it has no ranks and it does not take donations. The idea is that everyone gets the same access to the server features right away.
It is built for people who want to actually play the endgame and work on big projects. The server uses lots of plugins and some custom stuff but it is aiming for a more vanilla feel instead of pay to win bloat.
There are land claims that work by chunks and you can make one with a command. There is a shop plot world where players can set up shops and there is a blocks warp with building stacks at a fixed price. You also get teleports like tpa rtp and warps.
If you die your items go into a grave so they do not burn or scatter. There are mob catchers you can craft with an egg and amethyst for moving passive mobs. You also get playtime rewards every 15 minutes.
The overworld is a huge 32K map that is already generated and rtp can send you out to 16K. The server also says it runs on strong hardware to keep lag low.
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