Headrest SMP is a survival pvp world on Paper with a bunch of quality of life plugins. It runs on version 1.20.10 and the server has strong hardware with 20GB ram and a 5800x3d cpu so it is made to handle fights and big builds.
The server feels like a tight knit group where people want to be friends but also are always ready to fight. You can build bases and plan wars and sometimes even betray people if you want that kind of drama.
There is a safe zone at spawn where pvp is off so players can build shops and just hang out. People talk there using a simple voice chat mod so it feels more like everyone is actually together.
Some of the plugins are made to keep combat fair. Elytra is disabled during combat so no one can just fly away and there is a combat log plugin so you cannot easily escape fights. There is also a sit command to chill around with others and more small features that make the server feel comfy but still dangerous.
If you want a place with wars and alliances and also real friends this server is built for that mix of building and fighting.
