I found a hardcore survival server called Himas Hardcore SMP and it is made for people who like danger.
If you die you get banned for 6 hours so every fight and every trip matters a lot.
It has a player run economy so you can trade and build up money and try to control the market.
The play style is basically no rules so it turns into chaos and strategy and people doing whatever it takes to stay alive.
It also uses GrimAC to help stop cheating so the fights feel more fair.
