I found an EU lifesteal anarchy server called MinecraftOffline. It is about fighting and surviving where killing players can give you more hearts and dying makes you lose hearts.
If you run out of hearts you get banned. New players get a 1 hour grace period so they will not lose hearts right away.
It has simple commands like setting a home and sending teleport requests. PvP is taken serious because commands are blocked during fights and combat logging gets punished with a killable NPC that can drop your stuff.
There is also a vote skip night command. They track playtime kills and deaths and you can get rewards at milestones. There is an in game shop where vote tokens can buy custom name colors and custom MOTDs.
They also try to stop extreme speed cheats and cut down the worst chat spam but it is not perfect.
