ArcticMC is a new survival server that started just a couple days ago. It is an SMP with Towny and faction style play so you can build a town and claim land then make allies or fight over territory.
PVP matters here but it is meant to stay fair since there is an honor system and it is explained in their Discord rules. The server also uses McMMO so you level up skills while you play like mining and combat and you can unlock special abilities.
It has custom items and they even have furniture that is entity based. They also use Tectonic world generation so the terrain has big mountains and nice valleys and it feels more realistic.
The community vibe is calm and friendly and more about chilling and exploring than pure chaos.
