I found a long term SMP that is trying to keep one world going for the long run. It is made for people who want progress to actually matter since there are no resets.
The community is chill and active and the server gets managed a lot with constant improvements. There is unscripted lore so players can help shape what happens next.
It also has a simple economy plus voice chat. PvP can be toggled so you can choose when you want to fight. There is also a Bedrock port listed for Bedrock players.
