I found a long term survival realm that stays mostly vanilla but adds a few careful extras so it still feels normal.
It has a custom money system with NPC shops and you can also make your own shops that are protected. People can make towns or group bases with friends and just build and explore at their own pace.
There are optional boosts like extra hearts and movement speed. They also use a gravestone system so your items are protected when you die.
The rules are clear and they actually enforce them. No hacking no griefing no stealing and no unwanted PvP. The community is mostly adults and there are no activity requirements. Discord is required so you can keep up with events and updates.
Long Term Vanilla Realm With Shops
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPKanzo MC Chill Survival With Crossplay
Grief prevention setupnew player friendlyplayer-driven tradingShop focused economySupports offline accounts
Kanzo MC is a survival server that feels pretty chill and welcoming. You can just build a base farm stuff and explore without it feeling too intense.
It supports both Java and Bedrock so friends on PC console and mobile can play together. It also allows cracked Minecraft so you can join even without a premium account.
There is home protection and chest protection so your items and builds are safer. The server also has player shops trading plus towns jobs and an economy. It runs on version 1.21.10 for Java and Bedrock.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP