I found this survival multiplayer server that is set up like a long running experiment. The main idea is the world is meant to last forever and it slowly grows as players build more over time.
It is not anarchy and griefing is not allowed. The vibe is chill and it feels like a place where people just want to build and talk and play at their own pace.
The server is also economy driven so you can grind jobs and money if you like that style. The goal seems to be keeping the server active for the current community and helping new players find a spot to belong.
It supports both Java and Bedrock players with the Bedrock port listed.
Forever World SMP Economy Experiment
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPChill Crossplay Economy SMP From Day One
CryoMC is a new survival SMP that is built around a community economy and a chill place to play.
It is no grief so people can build without worrying and it uses grief prevention to help with that.
The server supports Java and Bedrock and it also allows all versions so more friends can join.
Gameplay feels like Minecraft but with some helpful plugins like keep inventory player warps and chest shops plus more.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP