Kanzo MC is a chill survival server where people build farm and explore without a bunch of stress.
It supports Java and Bedrock together so you can play with friends on PC console or mobile. It also allows cracked Minecraft so you can still join without premium.
I saw that it has homes and chest protection so your stuff stays safe. There are player shops and trading plus towns jobs and an economy so you can earn and buy things while you play.
The Garden SMP is a survival towny role play server for Java 1.21.11 and it also supports Bedrock players. It is made for worldbuilding adventure and roleplay and it feels friendly for new players with no join restrictions.
Players can start towns and even nations in the overworld and protect their builds with Towny. There are chest shops so people can sell goods without a forced economy.
There is a gods and worship angle too where you can be a priest cultist or a devoted worshipper and get rewards through Devotions. You can also explore different realms using Multiverse.
The server aims to stay relaxed with optional challenges if you want them. It says no pay to win and the staff are active and attentive with a small thriving community.