Onion SMP is a survival server that is growing fast. It feels made for chill players and also people who grind a lot.
It has claims so you can protect your builds. There are fair duels if you want to test your skill. Keep inventory is on so PvP does not feel so painful.
There is a green zone where you can relax and trade safely. There is also a red zone where you take risks and combat logging gets punished.
You can use RTP to find fresh land. You can team up with friends using teams and just build your own story.
