I found a laid back modded Minecraft Java server run by two friends who want more players that are 18+. It sounds like a small group with around 7 to 8 regular people so it feels more like a real friend group than a big public place.
The whole vibe is chill and not competitive. People mostly go on adventures together and build stuff while talking to relax.
They use Discord and also have proximity voice chat so you can run into someone while exploring and just talk like it is normal. The main idea is enjoying the journey and discovering things together and making a world that feels lived in.
Chill 18+ Modded Java Adventure Server
Adult Only Communitycommunity-driven worldexploration focused playlong-term worldSmall community server
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPChill 18+ Modded Adventures With Friends

I found a laid back modded Java server run by two friends. It is meant for 18 plus players and it has a small group that plays pretty often.
This place is not competitive at all. People just explore together build stuff and talk to relax. The server uses Discord and also has proximity voice chat so it feels like you run into people while you are out doing your own thing.
The main vibe is the journey and discovering things as a group. They want a world that feels lived in and they want more players to join the crew.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP
