I found a small Minecraft server that is running a lifesteal style survival for now. It stays mostly vanilla but it has a few mods added in.
It is semi scripted but it still feels like normal survival most of the time. There are usually around 20 active players on at a time.
I also saw mods like Farmers Delight and similar stuff. The server might change its main style later but right now it is lifesteal with a chill small community vibe.
SMALL LIFESTEAL SEMI VANILLA SERVER
Chill survival worldcommunity focused playFresh server energyplayer-driven storiesSimple mod additions
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPUnscripted Mod Sharing SMP Server
Collaborative building serverCreative mod testingFresh Server LaunchSmall group communitySurvival with twists
I found a modded Minecraft server that is inspired by content SMP stuff but it is not scripted so it feels more real
You can publish your own mods for the server and that is a big part of what makes it different
To join you have to fill out a form and they say do not put any personal info in itGG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP