Onion SMP is a survival server that is growing fast and it works for chill players and also grinders.
I saw that you can use claims so your builds stay protected. There are duels that are meant to be fair so you can prove your skill. It also has keep inventory so PvP is not as painful.
There is a green zone where you can relax and trade safely. There is also a red zone where you take more risks and combat logging gets punished.
You can use RTP to find fresh land and you can team up with friends using teams. It feels like a place where you can make your own story.

