I found a server called BudderCraft and it feels like one of those places where there is always something going on.
It has tower defense and factions so you can fight and also do the whole team and territory thing.
My favorite part was the creative mode area. It is super bugged and I even made a villager that sells operator items which was kinda wild. If you look at the map at the creative spawn you can see my huge Operator Items text.
The owner seems pretty friendly and the server just has that messy fun vibe that makes you want to stay and mess around.

