Lavender SMP is a small whitelist server for adults who like hard survival and chill building. It is 18 plus and very friendly to lgbtq players so it feels safe to just hang out and talk.
The server runs Java edition and is on version 1.21.10. It uses hardmode so mobs hit pretty hard but there are some quality of life tweaks that keep it fun.
There are data packs and plugins like afk display and anti enderman grief so your builds do not get ruined. You can collect more mob heads and player head drops and use mini blocks to decorate your base. There are double shulker shells so you can actually carry your stuff. There are extra advancements from Blaze and Cave so you always have more goals.
The community is close knit and people like to build and hang out in voice chat. There is simple voice chat so if you see folks talking you can just jump in and be part of it.
