I found Midnight and it is an SMP survival server that is all about grinding and building up your own progress with a player economy.
It also says it has no pay to win and no admin abuse so it feels more fair and normal to play on.
You can trade and try to get rich and there are daily rewards that get better if you keep a streak. You can unlock tags to show off in chat too.
They run events and giveaways and there are custom crates plus some premium plugins to help the gameplay feel better.
