This server is called WithTheCat Community and it has been running for more than 13 years. It is a small but very close group of people who like modded Minecraft and expert style packs. They care a lot about friendship and long adventures that last a long time.
The server runs in Finland on strong hardware with an i5 13500 and a lot of RAM and fast NVMe storage. Right now they host Stone Block 4 and Vault Hunters plus their own custom modpack called WithTheCat Second Edition.
Joining is different from most places because there is no boring form to fill out. Instead they want you to write about yourself. New players write at least 300 words about who they are and what they like. If you have a friend already in the community you can write at least 50 words. They want to know your name your age and your interests so they can see who will fit with the group.
The people here act more like a family than random players. They like talking about games and building long term memories together. They do not force you to talk about your real life if you do not want to. You can just talk about gaming and Minecraft. The server is for players who want a mature and steady place where every build and every run in a modpack becomes part of a shared story.
