Lounge SMP is a semi vanilla survival server that is all about taking your time and building something that matters.
The community is known for being inclusive and friendly and it feels like a place where you can actually make friends and stick around.
Griefing is not allowed so your builds can stay safe while the world keeps going forever.
There are custom minigames to break up survival and the world border grows over time so there is always more space to explore.
They also run events like a Spleef event this Friday and it works for both Java and Bedrock players.
