I found a new SMP that is made for Java players and also crossplay so more people can join together. The vibe is chill and it is more about hanging out and building up towns with your team.
People can make town areas and community centres then travel around to other places and meet players. There is custom terrain plus custom items and other extra stuff to mess with.
Players can open their own shops and trade. There is also a new parry system. Bedrock players fight with bedrock pvp and Java players fight with java pvp but it is meant to be balanced so it stays fair.
