BackToBlocks is a simple vanilla survival server with some nice QoL stuff added. It works for Java and Bedrock so more friends can play together.
People build at spawn and also host events there. The end island is a place to decorate and the nether hub is a big shared project too.
You can use stuff like set homes and tpa and there is a shopping district for trading. There is also /itemflip so you can gamble your items if you feel brave.
It is not a PvP server but PvP and raiding are allowed within limits. Griefing is not allowed and the vibe is no drama and no pay to win.
BackToBlocks Vanilla Survival No P2W
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPNEW CROSSPLAY SMP NO ECONOMY
I found a brand new SMP that is starting right now and it is crossplay so Java and Bedrock can join the same world
It also says no economy so it feels more like normal survival and you just play and grind without money stuff
If you want to be early on a fresh server this one is calling youGG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP