I found a modpack server with over 200 mods and it is trying to feel like a souls like dark rpg. The vibe is chill and the community sounds friendly. You can pick your playstyle and do your own thing.
You can create nations or just stay solo and explore. It seems made for people who want to roam the world or hang out with others.
They do active updates and events. There are custom built dungeons that reset weekly and it also has a big questline. It is planned to come out in March.

