I found Pasta2 and it is a long term Minecraft server with a semi anarchy style.
It has a dedicated community with rich lore and a really good atmosphere.
It seems like you can fit in no matter how you play. If you are into hardcore PVP you can go for it. If you just like building you can still find your place.
It is Java and it says 1.21.11.
Pasta2 Semi Anarchy With Lore
Atmosphere heavy worldcasual to sweatycommunity-focused serverJava survival serverplayer-driven lore
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPChill Hardcore Realm Looking For Players
This is a Minecraft Hardcore Realm with a small chill group. People try to survive build and play together.
It is for players who like Hardcore mode and want others around instead of playing alone. There is also a Discord where everyone hangs out.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPShobies SMP Chill Semi Vanilla Adventure
chill smp vibescustom mobs addedJava survival serversocial survival hangoutwhitelist required access
Shobies SMP is a Java SMP that feels chill and active. It keeps the vanilla vibe so it still feels like normal Minecraft.
The server adds custom mobs and custom items. It is meant to be extra fun without changing everything.
Rules are shared in the Discord and you need to get whitelisted to join.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPOrigins SMP With Minimal Mods
I found a Fabric 1.19.2 SMP that is trying to stay small and friendly. It keeps the mod list short so it still feels close to vanilla but with some fun extras.
It has Origins plus a few quality mods like Chisel Farmers Delight and a voice chat mod. The server does not use claims and it runs on a whitelist to help keep things in order.
It sounds like a chill place for people who want modded survival without a huge pack and with a community vibe.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPOrdinary SMP Whitelisted Vanilla Community
Active staff watchcustom cosmetics packFriendly Global Playersno pay advantagesocial survival hangout
Ordinary SMP is a vanilla Java survival server that stays up to date and it is running on 1.21.11. It is whitelisted so the player base stays respectful and chill.
The community feels tight knit and active with people from all over. Players build together and work on big community projects while also doing their own thing.
They use Ledger to track what happens so griefing or stealing can get checked out. There is a BlueMap live map and Simple VoiceChat for talking in game. There is also an AudioPlayer for custom audio.
The server runs events like PvP battles and build contests. There are dragon elytra drops and a custom resource pack with cosmetics trophies and event rewards with a HermitCraft inspired vibe.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPHermit Style SMP With Proximity Chat
All Outta Blocks is a community centered SMP that feels like Hermitcraft. It is made by the players for the players and the server changes can come from requests and polls.
It sticks close to vanilla but still adds some fun stuff. There is a diamond based economy with a shopping district plus public builds and big projects. Proximity chat is a big deal here and a lot of players actually use it.
You can use homes and there are some cosmetic and quality of life plugins too. The server is Java only on Minecraft 1.21.11 and it is whitelisted and 18+ only.
There are usually around 5 to 20 people online during the day and there are lots of regular active players. If you want friends there are groups that are looking for new members.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPWaystone Semi Vanilla SMP That Lasts
Waystone is a small semi vanilla survival server that feels like a long term world where people actually talk and build and stay around.
It is whitelist only and it is made for a relaxed pace with a friendly and more mature vibe. There is no pay to win and they do not do constant resets.
Building is a big deal here with towns and long projects. Land claiming helps keep stuff safe without making it feel annoying.
Deaths are less stressful since your items get saved in a gravestone for a few hours. Skills level up as you play and you get small perks over time so it stays simple.
When you go adventuring together everyone gets their own loot so it does not turn into arguments. Proximity voice chat is optional and there is party chat too.
The world has seasons and holiday events and little details to make it feel alive. The server is Java 1.21.11 and it is UK hosted.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPLighthouse SMP Vanilla Bedrock Survival
Lighthouse SMP is a small survival server on Bedrock. It keeps things vanilla and simple so it feels like classic Minecraft.
The community is friendly and the whole point is to play together and chill. If you want a smaller place where people actually talk this one fits.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP