I found a normal SMP that is starting up soon and it is meant to feel like regular Minecraft survival.
There is no economy stuff and it is not modded. They only use a few plugins and it sounds like they are kept light so the gameplay stays mostly the same.
It has crossplay and the server is up 24 7. They also say there will be no resets so you can build long term. Launch is on Feb 20.
Fresh Vanilla SMP Starts Feb 20
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPCofferCraft Semi Vanilla Economy SMP
CofferCraft is a fresh semi vanilla SMP on 1.21.11 where you start at the beginning and earn everything the normal way. It is made for exploring building and grinding without the game feeling changed into something else.
The server has land claims and protections so your builds and storage can stay safe. It also has hidden vaults around the world so exploring can pay off.
The economy is mostly run by players with an Auction House for buying and selling. There is no server shop and no easy money system so if you want stuff you mine it or trade for it. There is also a /sell command but only some items can be sold to the server.
It is a SFW community and the launch is limited to 50 players for now. When you join you can use /kit default for starter supplies and /rtp to get started fast.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP