Twilight Sanctuary is a chill 18 plus Minecraft server that really cares about community. It feels like a place where people actually want to get to know each other and hang out instead of just playing alone.
The server is run on Paper in the US and it feels mostly vanilla with some small quality of life plugins. There is a diamond based economy that is like hermitcraft so trading and shopping with other players is a big part of the world. There is also a separate resource world and a live Bluemap so you can look at the world from your browser.
Java and Bedrock players can both join so it is easy to play with friends. The world border is smaller on purpose so bases end up closer together and people run into each other more. That makes it feel more like a town instead of everyone being super far away.
The owner really listens to player feedback and wants everyone to feel like their ideas matter. There is a big focus on events with a lot of different planned events and also random pop up events at busy times. The server has been running for a little over a month and there are still tons of projects and things to do. It feels like a growing community where new players can still join and fit right in.

