Waystone is a small semi vanilla Java SMP that feels a lot like a Hermitcraft style server. People actually build towns chat and stick around so it feels social without being sweaty.
The world is meant to last and it does not do constant resets. It is whitelist only and it is hosted in the UK. The vibe is relaxed and the rules are simple like no pay to win and just good Minecraft.
Building is a big deal here and you can take your time with long term projects. Land claiming helps keep stuff safe. Dying is not a huge punishment because your items go into a gravestone for a few hours.
Progression is natural because skills level up as you play and you get small perks over time. When you raid with others everyone gets their own loot so it stays fair.
There is optional proximity voice chat with nearby talk and party chat. The server also has seasons and holiday events plus a live map so you can watch builds grow.
