I found AeternalCiv and it is a semi anarchy server where you build civilizations and try to make your own path. You can be a citizen a king or queen or just a hermit and do your own thing.
It has base reinforcement with Citadel and it uses snitches so people can protect areas and track stuff. There is also warfare plus Movecraft so fights can get wild.
It leans into RPG style gameplay with Origins ValhallaMMO levelled mobs seasons and more mechanics. There is Brewery custom recipes and the server is still being worked on so more changes are coming.
It started as a small friends server and now they want more players to join and build the world together.
