This is a free modded survival server that is running long term and feels pretty active. When I joined it already had a growing community and people actually talk and help each other.
The main world has a big city getting built and it keeps expanding. Players are making shops and running their own economy with trades and deals instead of using mod based money. It feels like players decide how the server market works.
Everyone seems really friendly and they help new players get started on their journey. You can join alone or bring a whole team of friends.
There is also a war idea for the future for people who want to fight and do big battles. If you do not want to take part you can stay safe because claims protect you from death grief and loot stealing so you are not forced into pvp.
The server uses a modpack on the latest version that they mention and the region is Oceania so it is best for players near there.
Oceania Modded Survival City Realm
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NisseSMP is a cool place if you're into crossplay between Java and Bedrock editions. It's like a HermitCraft server, which means it's all about trust and fair play. The server doesn't have claims, but everyone respects each other's builds, so you don't have to worry about griefing or PvP. It's mostly survival with some neat plugins that make life a bit easier, without messing up the game.
The economy is run by players, so you can set up shops and trade with others using virtual currency. It's always lively with about 15 to 25 players online during peak times. You can just jump in anytime since there's no whitelist.
If you're looking for a place to build, trade, and hang out with a friendly community, NisseSMP is worth checking out.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP