I found a friendly Minecraft survival server in the EU with a community that started in the Netherlands. It has about 12 regular players and they want more active people from nearby countries so the world feels more alive.
It is an open survival world where you can build together on group projects or just do your own thing. You can also join small groups and help with community projects when you feel like it.
The rules are simple. No griefing and no stealing. PVP only if both people agree. Respect other builds bases and private areas. Be normal and respectful in chat and Discord. Dupes are allowed but no lag machines or stuff that can mess up the server.
Chill EU Survival Community No Grief

GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPNobleSMP Crossplay Chill Semi Vanilla SMP

NobleSMP is a brand new SMP that lets both Java and Bedrock players join the same world.
The vibe is meant to be chill with no griefing and no toxicity so people can actually build and play without stress.
Keep inventory is on and claims are enabled so your stuff and your base stay safe. The server is still new and they are trying to grow a good community before the big release.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP
