I found Universe SMP and it is a survival server with a tight knit community. The whole vibe is built on trust and people try to keep it chill.
A new season started a couple weeks ago so it feels active again. You can team up and build mega cities or you can go solo and do your own thing.
It also lets both premium and cracked players join so more people can play together. If you want a semi friendly place that is mostly about the community this one fits.
