I found a small Towny and SMP server that is all about chilling and building. The main rule vibe is no griefing and no stealing so people can relax and work on towns without stress.
It stays the same world with no resets ever. The community is welcoming and you can usually find players around since people are active across AU EU and US timezones.
You can claim land and grow a town with Towny. There are Jobs and MCMMO plus an in game ranking system. It also has Dynmap so you can see the world. For trading it has player warps and player shops plus a server shop that is sell only.
It runs on 1.21.x and it also supports Bedrock with a port listed.
