I found MinedHype SMP and it is a friendly long term public survival server that has been around for years with the same owner. It is on Minecraft 1.21.11 and it aims for a mostly vanilla kind of survival.
There is no whitelist and it says no pay to win. There is also no money economy plugin so shops are run by players with item trades instead.
Grief protection is done with claims and grief is allowed if a spot is not claimed. They also use CoreProtect to help with problems.
The Overworld and Nether are meant to never reset. There is no set world border or even a set spawn and players spawn randomly within the first 40k blocks. You can use /rtp to get a random spot and then set a /home.
It supports Bedrock and Java cross play and it has a web based live map. There are free events with prizes and a public shopping district you can teleport to with /tpshop.
MinedHype SMP Long Term Vanilla Survival

GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPProgression Survival with Dungeons and Bosses

This is a custom Survival SMP that keeps the survival feel but adds real progression with PvP and economy.
It has a full custom enchant system with rarity tiers from common to legendary. The enchants can do things like slowness poison weakness wither knockback lifesteal and even temporary enchant disabling. Gear builds matter so fights have counterplay and it is not just who hits first.
There are dungeons and bosses too. You enter through portals at /dungeons then clear rooms and fight Elites for strong loot and materials. Minions can drop rare loot keys and crafting materials. You can use Boss Totems in the right boss rooms to spawn bosses. There are both PvE and PvP dungeons.
The economy rewards playing. You can sell items and level up sell multipliers by type. Crops ores mob drops and spawners all give different money paths and you can buy basic materials in /shop or trade with other players in /ah.
PvP is part of the world. Teams exist and raiding is allowed. Insiding and scamming items are allowed too. Cheats and unfair advantages are blocked so it stays about skill gear and builds.
There is also a cosmetic wrap system for gear so you can change the look without changing stats. The server has RTP leaderboards and a clean custom GUI so it is easy to learn.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPDungeon Bosses, Raiding, and PvP Progression

Survival+ is a custom SMP that keeps the survival feel but pushes progression with PvP and economy. It supports both Java and Bedrock so more people can join in.
The enchant system is fully custom with rarity tiers from common to legendary. Enchants are not just damage because they can add slowness poison weakness wither knockback lifesteal and even temporary enchant disabling. Gear builds matter and fights have real counterplay.
Dungeons and bosses are a big part of the server. You enter through portals at the dungeons command and clear rooms then fight Elites for strong loot and materials. Minions can drop rare loot keys and crafting materials and you can use Boss Totems in the right boss rooms to spawn bosses. There are PvE dungeons and PvP dungeons too.
The economy is based on playing the game. You sell items and level up sell multipliers by type and you can trade with other players using the shop or the auction house.
Raiding is allowed and teams exist and even insiding and item scamming are allowed. Cheating and unfair advantages are blocked so it stays about skill gear and builds. There is also a cosmetic wrap system so you can change how your gear looks without changing stats.
It has an in game guide RTP leaderboards and clean menus so it is easy to learn.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPSurvival Dungeons With Boss Totems

This server is a Survival+ SMP that keeps the survival feeling but adds real progression with PvP and economy. It works on both Java and Bedrock so more players can join together.
The big thing here is the custom enchant system with rarity tiers from common to legendary. The enchants do more than just extra damage and they can add effects like slowness poison weakness wither knockback lifesteal and even temporary enchant disabling. Fights end up being about builds and counterplay not just who swings first.
There are dungeons and bosses you enter through portals at /dungeons. You clear rooms and fight Elites for strong loot and materials. Minions can drop rare loot keys and crafting materials and you can use Boss Totems in the right boss rooms to spawn bosses. There are both PvE and PvP dungeons.
The economy is built around playing since you sell items and level up sell multipliers by item type. You can make money from crops ores mob drops and spawners and you can use the shop for basic materials or trade with players in the auction house.
PvP is part of the world with teams and raiding allowed and even insiding and scamming items allowed. Cheats and unfair advantages are blocked so it stays about skill gear and builds. There is also a cosmetic wrap system so you can change how your gear looks without changing stats.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPNorth Survival Semi Vanilla PvP Adventure

North Survival is a semi vanilla server that feels simple but still has some helpful features. It is not overloaded with crazy plugins so you still get that normal Minecraft feeling but a bit smoother.
You can use villagers with easy clicking so trading and managing stuff is faster. There is RTP so you can find a building spot right away without walking forever. You can use TPA to teleport and play with your friends which makes it easier to stick together.
The server has a custom UI and a protected spawn so new players do not get messed with right away. It also runs on version 1.21.4 and supports all 1.21 clients so it is updated to the newest stuff.
From what I can see the performance is stable so it does not lag a lot and it seems focused on survival with PvP so you can build but also fight if you want.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP
