I found TerraScape SMP and it is a peaceful survival server for Java players. It is mostly vanilla and it keeps things chill since pvp is only allowed if both people agree.
The community is small and mature and it is an 18 plus server. They do events and the staff says they are happy to help if you have problems.
It has a few plugins like sit map art simple voice chat that you can ignore if you want and Bluemap. The rules are basic but important like be respectful and no griefing stealing or random pvp and you can build freely as long as you respect other people and their stuff.
TerraScape Vanilla SMP Peaceful 18+
CoreMC Pure Vanilla No Resets
2a2b Online Fun Zone
# 2A2B Survival Server**Status:** Online
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## **Server Rules (Survival Only)**
### **Basic Rules**
1. **No Cheats / No Hacks**
No tools like X-Ray or Fly mods. If found, ban hammer comes down.2. **No Griefing**
Don’t wreck or steal from other players. Keep it chill.3. **No Toxicity or Spam**
No bad words or spam. Keep chat clean.4. **Respect Others’ Builds**
Tours are fine, but don’t break stuff without asking.5. **PvP with Consent Only**
Only fight if both agree. No surprise attacks.6. **No Lag Machines**
No big hoppers or TNT farms. Keep the server smooth.7. **Admin Decisions Are Final**
Break rules? You might get warned, kicked, or banned.—
### **Building Rules**
1. **No Big Builds Near Spawn**
Stay 200 blocks away from spawn for big stuff.2. **Don’t Build on Others**
Ask before building close to someone else.3. **Need Protection?**
Ask an admin for help.4. **Enjoy Building**
Respect the world and have fun in survival mode.—
## **Server Info**
– **Server Name:** 2A2B Survival Server
– **Version:** Purple 1.21.10
– **Edition:** Java Edition
– **Style:** Free Building x Survival
– **Banned:** Cheats, Griefing, Lag Machines
– **Address:** [st-bizarre.gl.joinmc.link](http://st-bizarre.gl.joinmc.link)—
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