I found Ratchy SMP and it is a survival server that is mostly vanilla but it uses modpacks too.
The main one mentioned is Lifesteal so players can take hearts and you can also turn hearts into items with a simple command.
The commands are meant to be easy and the owner said they made it for fun. They also said the server can be down sometimes for mod maintenance and you can comment if you want to add mods.
Ratchy SMP Lifesteal Vanilla Chaos
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPRevive That Old School SMP Feeling
MadeiraCraft is a simple SMP that is trying to bring back that after school Minecraft feeling where you just play survival with friends and make your own little history.
It is inspired by an older style SMP with economy land claiming and clans and it is more PvE focused. The server is mainly Portuguese but it also has English translation for everything.
The playerbase is small right now with the owner friends and some random wanderers. You get one world to explore gather resources and build a home and it is meant to be no grief.
There are cool extras too like torches giving light when you hold them plus a mob arena and even a chapel at spawn. Most permissions that are usually VIP only on other servers are available to normal players and fly is the big exception.
It runs on 1.21.4 and the vibe is chill so you can just join and help make the server feel alive.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPNo Grief Crossplay Friendly SMP
I found a brand new SMP that lets both Java and Bedrock players join the same world.
It is trying to be super friendly with no griefing and no toxicity. Keep inventory is on so you do not lose your stuff when you die. Claims are enabled so your builds can stay safe.
The server is still really new and they want more people to help get the community going before it fully releases.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPCozy Whitelisted Survival With Lasting Builds
Farmlands is a whitelisted survival server that feels cozy and slow paced. It is made for players who want to take their time and work on long term builds farms and big projects.
The main world is meant to last so your base and your progress stay important. There is also a separate resource world that resets regularly so getting materials does not mess up the place where people live.
Gameplay stays close to vanilla with a few quality of life features plus a custom advancement pack for extra challenges. The rules are strict about no griefing no stealing and no toxicity so it stays safe and relaxed.
The economy is player driven so you can trade with others or open a shop. There are no ranks and no pay to win so it feels fair and based on effort.
The community is small and friendly and focused on building farming and playing together over time. You apply through Discord to join.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPDeadMans Land Classic Factions Kill Or Be Killed
DeadMan's Land is a Java server that sticks to classic factions and survival at its core.
People team up to form factions and try to build an empire while other groups are always looking for a raid.
It has custom events and the PvP is meant to feel balanced. The whole vibe is kill or be killed so you either make allies or you get taken down.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPGolden Economy Survival Semi Vanilla
Golden Network is a semi vanilla multiplayer survival server that feels like normal survival but with a big focus on the economy.
Gold is the main currency here and players can trade it for rare and expensive items. It makes mining and saving gold actually matter.
The server is new and the map only opened recently. The community is still growing so it is a good time to jump in and help shape the world.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPOnion SMP 1.21.11 Crossplay Survival
Onion SMP is a survival server that runs on 1.21.11 and it has crossplay so more people can join in.
It has claims so you can protect your stuff and it also has graves so your items are easier to get back after you die.
There is rtp for getting around and there is combat log protection so fights do not get ruined by people leaving.
You can also use teams so playing with friends feels way easier.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPFresh Vanilla World New Universe Java
New Universe is a fresh vanilla Java server with a 100 percent untouched world so everything is new and waiting to be found.
It is mostly vanilla but it has some quality of life plugins to make playing feel smoother. The server is meant for newbies and true gamers so you can learn or go hard.
There are very few restrictions but the owner wants it to stay free of toxicity and griefing so people can actually enjoy building and exploring.
You can be one of the first players to explore the land and try to take down the Ender Dragon.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPChill No PvP Vanilla SMP
LuckyGem is a 1.21.11 vanilla survival SMP server that just started a new map. It is made for people who want to play long term and keep things chill.
The server is whitelisted so you have to apply to get in. It supports Java and Bedrock cross play so more friends can join together.
It stays close to vanilla but it has QOL plugins and Simple VC. PvP is not allowed and the playerbase is respectful and welcoming.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPArcticMC Chill Towny Slimefun SMP
ArcticMC SMP is a really chill survival server that uses Towny and Factions so players can make towns or claim their own land. It feels calm and cozy and it is made for people who just want to relax and play.
The world has custom generation so there are big valleys and rolling hills that look nice for building bases and mega projects. While you play you can use McMMO to level up skills and slowly get stronger just by doing normal stuff.
The server also has Slimefun with a ton of custom machines tools and materials so there is always something new to craft and automate. It makes survival feel deeper without turning it into total chaos.
The community is described as calm and friendly where people can chat hang out and build together. It seems like a good place if you want a soft relaxed server to grind build or just vibe with other players.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP