I found CozyCraft and it feels like a calm survival place that is all about building and taking your time.
There is no PvP so people are not out to fight you. It also says no pay to win so it stays fair.
The world does not reset ever so your builds and progress are meant to stick around. It is mostly vanilla so it keeps that normal Minecraft feel.
You can play on Java and Bedrock so it works for different players.
