I found a server called Aethron and it is a Java 1.21.11 Towny survival server. It is still pretty new and it has been up for about a month with around 15 players so far.
The world feels more wild because it runs datapacks like Terralith Incendium and Nullscape plus more. You can explore and build towns and help shape how the place feels while it is still growing.
People are active during the day but sometimes it gets quiet. It seems best for players who want to be part of the foundation and not just lost in a huge crowd.
Fresh Towny World Needs Founders
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPCozy Semi-Vanilla Survival Forever World
This is a peaceful Survival server that feels old school and made for builders who want a calm place to stay for a long time.
It is all about playing slow and doing things the classic way with natural progression and vanilla gameplay coming first.
There is no PvP so it is cooperative and chill. The world is meant to last forever with no wipes. It also stays fair with no pay to win stuff or cash grab mechanics.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPPeaceful Forever World Semi Vanilla Survival
Cozy Craft is a peaceful survival server that feels made for builders who want a calm place to play.
There is no PvP so you can focus on building and exploring without fighting other players.
The world is meant to last for a long time and it runs with minimal plugins so it stays close to normal Minecraft.
It supports both Java and Bedrock so more friends can join in.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP