Lavender SMP is a whitelist server that is 18+ and LGBTQ+ friendly. It is Java only and it is on version 1.21.11. The server is on hardmode and it just restarted so it feels fresh.
It has some quality of life mods and simple voice chat. The community is close knit and likes building and talking. If people are in voice and you hop in too you can join the chat.
There are datapacks and plugins like AFK display anti enderman grief more mob heads player head drops mini blocks double shulker shells tpa and DiscordSRV.
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GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPExilesMC 18+ No Wipe ATM9
ExilesMC is a modded Minecraft server made for people who hate putting tons of time into a world and then losing it later. This one is built for long term play with no planned wipes and it is 18+ with a whitelist.
It uses ATM9 as the base and then adds extra mods for security decoration utility and quality of life. You can go big with factories or do magic or explore a lot or just build for hours and mess with your storage until it is perfect.
The community is aiming to be more mature and calm. They want good people and a place to play without drama. There is no pay to win stuff and no pressure to rush.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP