I found Anarchy Network and it is a semi anarchy survival server that tries to feel like real vanilla Minecraft with very few changes.
It started on October 11th 2024 and it is hosted in New York City. The server stays online all day and it lets you join on Java versions from 1.7.2 up to 1.21.11. They recommend 1.21.10 so you do not get weird issues.
The world is huge with a 2 million block border and there are no map resets. There is no pay to win and griefing plus pvp is allowed so you need to be careful.
There is no teleporting and the only command they allow is spawn so people far away can still get back to civilization. Nether roof access is allowed. Phantoms are removed and only half the players need to sleep to skip the night.
They do not allow exploits lag machines duping spamming or harassment and racial slurs in chat.
