I found LoungeSMP and it is a semi vanilla server that feels like it cares about building and community first.
It has anti grief stuff and claims so your builds can stay safe. The economy is player driven so trading and shops actually matter.
There are player warps and some quality of life features to make survival smoother. They also let you create your own lore so people can make stories and vibes together.
It supports Java and Bedrock and the version listed is 1.21.11.
GlowySMP is a brand new whitelisted semi vanilla SMP that feels cozy and chill. It is made for players who want a friendly relaxed place with no griefing.
Java and Bedrock players can both join so friends can play together. The server has an economy system plus player warps and player shops.
It also has land claims custom enchants community events jobs PyroFishing a resource world a PvP toggle and mobcatchers. The community is actively moderated so things stay grief free and positive.
I found a simple Minecraft SMP that is trying to feel like the old days. It keeps things clean with no spam and no annoying extra features and no required resource packs.
The community is active and they are looking for more people to hang out and play. There are constant events like parkour and spleef and PvP and PvE and pillars of fortune and build events.
It also has a player economy and a server economy plus jobs so you can grind and trade. You can set player warps and use claims so builds stay safe and griefing is not allowed. Anti xray and anti cheat are on. There is also a Bedrock port if you play that way.
GlowySMP is a whitelisted semi vanilla survival server that is meant to feel friendly and relaxed. It is built for people who want a cozy place to play at their own pace and still have stuff to work toward.
It supports both Java and Bedrock so more players can join together. You can use an economy system plus player warps and player shops. There are land claims to help keep builds safe.
There are custom enchants and community events and a jobs system. It also has PyroFishing and a resource world plus a PvP toggle and mobcatchers. Griefing is not allowed and the server is actively moderated to keep things positive.
GamerHub Towny is a very new Towny SMP that started as a streaming server and now it is trying to grow into a bigger place.
The vibe is pretty chill and griefing is not allowed and stealing is not allowed. The world never resets so builds can stay for the long run.
It has ingame ranking with ingame money and it also has dynmap. You can use player warps and player shops and there is a sell only server shop.
There are jobs and MCMMO too. The server usually has a few players and it gets the most active during Twitch streams when it can hit 8 or more online. Most players are in the Oceania region. It supports version 1.21.10 or similar.
GlowySMP is a new whitelisted semi vanilla survival server with a friendly relaxed vibe. It is made for people who want to play at their own pace and still feel progress.
Java and Bedrock players can both join so friends on different platforms can play together.
It has an economy system plus player warps and player shops. There are land claims to help keep builds safe since griefing is not allowed and the server is actively moderated.
You can also find custom enchants jobs PyroFishing a resource world a PvP toggle and mobcatchers. There are community events too and more stuff to discover in game.
GamerHub Towny is a new survival server with a chill vibe. It started as a streaming server and now it is trying to grow with more players.
Griefing and stealing are not allowed so it feels safer for building towns and just playing without stress. The community is welcoming and a lot of players are in the Oceania region.
It has ingame ranks that use ingame money. You also get a dynmap plus player warps and player shops. There is a sell only server shop and there are jobs and MCMMO too.
It usually has a few players on but it gets the most active during twitch streams where it can hit 8 or more online. It supports version 1.21.10 or similar.
GlowySMP is a brand new whitelisted SMP that feels cozy and chill. It is semi vanilla so it still feels like normal Minecraft but with extra stuff to keep you playing.
It is meant to be friendly and grief free and the staff actively moderates it. Java and Bedrock players can play together so more friends can join.
There is an economy system plus player shops and player warps. You can use land claims to protect your builds. It also has custom enchants jobs PyroFishing a resource world a PvP toggle and mobcatchers with more things to find in game.
CryoMC is a chill survival world where people just want to hang out and play together. It is an economy style SMP that is all about the community and working together.
The server is no grief so you do not have to worry about your builds getting destroyed. There is grief prevention to keep your stuff safe. Keep inventory is on so you dont lose your items when you die which makes it feel way less stressful.
There are plugins that add simple features like player warps and chest shops. You can make your own shop and be part of the server economy. The plugins still keep the normal Minecraft feeling so it does not feel too crazy.
This server lets both Java and Bedrock players join. It also supports all versions so almost anyone can log in and play.
If you want a relaxed SMP where you can get comfy help shape a new world and just vibe with other chill players this is the kind of server it is.
CryoMC is a new survival world that feels really relaxed and cozy. It is built around an economy style SMP where players trade and build a community together. The server is meant for chill people who just want to hang out and have a good time.
The server is no grief so you do not have to worry about people ruining your builds. There are plugins that keep the normal Minecraft feeling but make life easier. Things like keep inventory grief prevention player warps and chest shops are all here.
Both Java and Bedrock players can join so more friends can play together. The server is pretty simple and focused on survival and community. If you want a place to get comfy and help shape a new world from the start this server seems like a good pick.