I found a new survival server called NightClub SMP and it is semi anarchy so the players kind of run the whole place.
It is not super strict and it feels like a sandbox where alliances betrayals traps raids weird politics and random wars can happen if the right people show up.
Stealing and raiding are allowed but only if the other player is online and knows it is happening. Cheating is not allowed and neither are lag machines or server breaking stuff.
You have to join the Discord to play and the server IP gets posted there when it opens. There is also a daily playtime system and you can earn bonus time.
NightClub SMP 9PM EST Semi Anarchy
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPRenegade SMP Gone Full Anarchy
This is a survival server that went full anarchy. It used to be a normal SMP but most of the players left. Now the whitelist is gone and it is just chaos.
There are lots of old builds around and people can grief them and steal all the loot. Nothing is really safe and the whole idea is that the strongest players survive.
If you get stuck in the lobby you just type slash server smp to join the real world and jump into the madness.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP