I found Anarchy.ae and it is a long term vanilla survival world where you can do your own thing. The map does not do seasons and it does not reset so stuff can actually have history.
It is semi anarchy so there are no claims and no land protection. You can get into conflict and your base can be found. It is still moderated so it stays playable and fair and not just a grief only wasteland.
It is not pay to win and there are no kits or store advantages. It supports both Java and Bedrock and they try to keep crossplay fair by blocking certain exploits and unfair movement.
There are a few quality of life commands to cut down on boring stuff. The server runs on dedicated hardware in Germany and they do regular backups for stability.
Semi Anarchy Vanilla With No Resets

GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPPickmc Semi Vanilla Anarchy PvP

Pickmc is a semi vanilla survival server with a semi anarchy vibe and a lot of player vs player action. It is inspired by StrengthSMP so it uses a plugin with classes and buffs.
The world is meant to stay around since there are no resets. There are also no claims so people can build trade or set traps and you can expect player drama.
It runs on Purpur and it is built to allow most farms and redstone compared to a lot of other servers. Hacked clients and mods that give unfair advantages are not allowed. The server is still a work in progress and the start date is planned for 30.01.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPSimplex SMP Crossplay Chill Survival

Simplex SMP is a chill long term survival server that lets Java and Bedrock players play together.
The world is meant to stick around with no resets so your builds can stay forever. There are land claims so your stuff can be protected.
You also get a starter kit and there are teleport commands to help you get around. The server aims for smooth performance and low lag with up to 50 players online.
It has a friendly active community and it is not pay to win. It feels good for solo players and groups that want a safe place to build.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP
