HermitLike Season Two is a new SMP that is inspired by HermitCraft and it is built for players who like to chill build and work together.
The server is on version 1.21.11 and it supports crossplay so Java and Bedrock players can be in the same world even on console.
It stays mainly vanilla with only a few quality of life and moderation plugins. There are no pay to win stuff and no voting crates or weird extras. There is no TP and no warps and no towny style systems and no land claiming.
The server is focused on trust and the rules are simple like no PVP no stealing and no griefing. There is an active staff team and a friendly Discord community.
Players are already setting up a starter village at spawn and you can join in. After the starting period there will be a communal shopping district. There is also an online live map so you can see builds and where people are.
It is still early game and the End is planned to open this Friday so it is a good time to jump in before things get too far ahead.
HermitLike Season 2 Crossplay SMP

GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPCozy No Reset Towny With Dynmap

I found a newer Towny server called GamerHub Towny and it is built for a small friendly community. The big deal is it has no resets so your builds and progress are meant to stick around.
Griefing and stealing are not allowed so it feels safer for people who just want to build and live in a town. A lot of the players are from Oceania and the US and people are ready to help new players.
It has ingame ranking that uses ingame money plus Dynmap so you can see the world. There are player warps and player shops and a sell only server shop. It also has Jobs and MCMMO and the server gets busiest when it is streamed on twitch.
It supports version 1.21.10 or similar.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP
