I found this Minecraft community called Forge Gaming and it has three different realms to play on. One realm is for new players and another realm is for trusted players who like long term survival. They even still have their original realm from 2017 that has never been wiped so you can see a really old world that kept going for years.
Everyone hangs out in their Discord server and it is very organized. They have channels for games and hobbies and life updates and also screenshots and media and even stuff like food and pets. People talk there a lot and they seem pretty active.
The community feels friendly and supportive. Players actually help each other and try to make long term friendships instead of just playing once and leaving. They use a simple application inside Discord so joining looks easy and not confusing.
If you want a place that has long lasting worlds and a tight community this server looks like that kind of spot.
