I found NisseSMP and it feels like a HermitCraft inspired survival server with a Vanilla plus style. It is Java and Bedrock crossplay so more people can play together.
The server is built around trust and fair play. There is no griefing and no PvP so it stays chill and focused on building and survival.
It also has a player driven economy with shops trading and virtual currency. The plugins are just quality of life stuff so it still feels like normal Minecraft.
Anyone can join since there is no whitelist. There is also a live map and the community is active with big peak hours.










