I found Ultimate Hardcore and it is a hardcore survival server where you only get one life. If you die you are done so it feels super intense the whole time.
It is vanilla and it keeps rules pretty small. Cheating is not allowed but PvP and griefing are part of the deal.
There is no pay to win stuff and it says there are no resets. It also says no alts so you cannot just come back on a new account when things go bad.
The server is really new since it started a few days ago. It feels like a place for players who want real consequences and a scary survival vibe.

