I found a survival civilization server called Ruby Civ and it is built for people who want to simulate society in Minecraft.
You can join civilizations and pick a life that sounds fun like merchant thief tyrant or even a king or queen. It is mostly players doing their own thing and the big rule is no hacking and no xraying.
It works on both Java and Bedrock so more friends can join together. The owner says it is heavily optimized and aiming for no lag.
The server is starting this Friday so it feels like a fresh start where everyone can jump in early.
Ruby Civ Crossplay ZERO LAG CIVILIZATION
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPClassicCraft Vanilla Survival With Far View
This server feels like old school Minecraft but it looks super clean. It is called ClassicCraft and it is made for people who miss the simple days but still want the world to look really good.
The server is pure survival and kind of semi vanilla. There are no flashy ranks or weird hub spawn. You just join the world and start playing. You can build big bases explore a lot and the world feels calm and relaxed.
One really cool thing is the huge render distance. They set it to 32 chunks so you can actually see super far. It makes building and exploring feel way better because you can see the horizon and not just a wall of fog.
The community vibe is friendly and chill. It is for mega builders and also for casual explorers. Everyone is supposed to keep it nice and not be toxic.
The rules are simple. Be decent and do not be a jerk. Do not use cheats hacked clients or xray because everything is kept legit. Mostly you are just supposed to have fun.
The server has grief protection and rollbacks too. So if someone does mess something up staff can fix it and your builds are safer.GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP