I found a laid back modded Minecraft Java server run by two friends who want more players that are 18+. It sounds like a small group with around 7 to 8 regular people so it feels more like a real friend group than a big public place.
The whole vibe is chill and not competitive. People mostly go on adventures together and build stuff while talking to relax.
They use Discord and also have proximity voice chat so you can run into someone while exploring and just talk like it is normal. The main idea is enjoying the journey and discovering things together and making a world that feels lived in.
Chill 18+ Modded Java Adventure Server

GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IPForge Gaming Bedrock Realm Community
active daily chatapplication required entryinternational playersnew player friendlySocial focused server
Forge Gaming is a long running Discord community that has been around since 2016 and it stays active and welcoming.
They host one Minecraft Bedrock Realm that is long term survival and meant for people who want to play and stick around.
The vibe is relaxed and not super competitive. People hang out and talk while they play and they help each other out.
There are members from places like the US and UK and EU and NZ so it feels like someone is around a lot. Joining uses an application system to help keep things friendly and drama free.
GG.MINEWIND.NET New Server IP
